Michele Spitulnik Ph.D.

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

Michele Spitulnik, licensed marriage and family therapist practicing in Lafayette, CA.


  • Do you fight about the same things over and over?
  • Do you wish for more intimacy or romance? 
  • Do you want to be better understood or supported by your partner? 
  • Are you considering marriage or separation?

I help couples understand how they get stuck and how they can use new strategies, like listening and acknowledging each other,  to better support each other and feel heard. I believe that when we are in securely attached relationships, with our partners, we are better prepared to seek out more opportunities and the experiences that make us feel whole.